Letting His Hair Down and Loosening Up…

…yep, that’s our Native American ‘3R‘ again, although more often then not he’s actually putting his hair ‘up’ so it doesn’t interfere with his training, and working on his hair-hanging performance with Ivo. But, socially and emotionally, he definitely is letting his hair down, to the extent that he is becoming seriously sexually active, offering himself to any ‘top’ who wants to engage with him, essentially – indeed, several at a time. The two young lads with whom he now shares an apartment seem physically exhausted each time we see them! It is clear now that 3R was ejected from his community because had been encouraging the younger boy in his reservation to ‘use him’ in the same way, and that he had done so – and then perhaps this younger boy had boasted about it. Not sure – we don’t like to ask.

However, he is a good-hearted guy. Chad told me yesterday that 3R showed up with a fistful of money, determined to repay his ‘debts’ to Chad for taking care of him. Of course, Chad refused to take it, but he has now given 3R a second ‘job’ – cleaning up the gym, doing the laundry (all those oily towels!), disinfecting the floor and all the benches and pads, and so forth. So the guy gets two salaries, and is clearly extremely grateful. And a tour to look forward to – really the guy did ‘run away and join a circus’. And that normally only happens in books. Like mine:

This one also in e-bookCover2 Thumband, finally.....gotta admit, seeing the whole set there, complete, on my shelf, gives me a funny feeling. I certainly let my hair down in some of that narrative, and exposed a lot of my friends to some scrutiny too I guess, which is one of the reasons why I changed a lot of names. Another reason was a certain Mr Raul and, if you want to find out what I’m referring to there, well, ‘Against All Odds’ will provide the answer. Vol 1 has a e-version out there already, and Vol 2 follows early next week. I’m in process of commissing the e-book for Vol 3, which takes several weeks.

OK, with a tour coming shortly, perhaps a few acrobatic pictures would fit the bill, featuring some great partnerships:







Sorry about the image quality on the next one, but it is tiny file…



It’s good to check out what the ‘competition’ are doing, and try to do some things a little differently.

3R’s rather generous sexual favours are, of course, not for us – not for Tuan Jie, the theme which also runs through the books along with acrobatics, gay love and adventures. We – currently a group of 8 regulars and 2 occasionals – keep ourselves sexually  pure and checked out, and don’t ‘couple’ outside the group. We got 3R checked out by our resident Dr Nate of course – physically as well as for STDs, and also to some extent, mentally. Apart from being a troubled soul, Nate gave him a clean bill of health. But not a licence to get intimate with us, given his apparent promiscuity and his indifference to condoms. It’s OK to be gay, but we do it our way, others theirs.

10 guys, 5 couples, letting our hair down and sharing around within the group, but also enjoying those special moments, just one-on-one…

luv duo

And, as I feel even more luvvy about Dave than usual right now, I’ll allow one more pussy-cat picture: just don’t dare, Dave, to choose the cat for a bedfellow rather than me, OK…

another for Dave

About tonycavanagh

Born Northampton UK; school Oxford UK and Oak Ridge Tennessee, where I met my wonderful partner Dave, also from UK. Oak Ridge is our main training base for acrobatics and circus stuff, but we also established a base in Wales (UK) to serve us when we are working in Europe. Our 'story', of finding gay love, learning the acrobatics trade and then of how we got shot at during our show (and worse was to follow - just to prove that the risks of being an acrobat are not always the most obvious ones!) are now available in my three books 'Loving the Boy', 'The Power of Love' and 'Against All Odds'. Links available on most blog posts. Actually, waiting for the imminent arrival of the first printed copies was far scarier than anything we do in performance. A fourth book - not about us but exploring the sadness of a gay Native American boy denied his true identity - is currently with an agent for evaluation. watch for 'Let The Future Find Me' in due time. And now to book five... another boy, another quest... seems its always boys...
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