Seize the Moment


That moment, after a great workout, when you admire the results and feel ‘job well done’. Often, its in the gym itself…

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You’re all sweaty…


One of the other guys comes over and suggests ‘Fancy a quick wrestle?’… He’s sweaty too…

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In our gym, at least, any remaining clothes are likely to come off at this point! You use those hard-won muscles to your best advantage, and enjoy the feel of his against your skin… especially if you’re a gay guy and, likely as not, he is too…

These post-workout wrestles usually go to the point of exhaustion without a ‘result’, although the ‘result’ which follows is commonly, erm, a jerk-off. If it’s one of our trusty Tuan Jie fellows then it probably goes further…

Cover1 ThumbHow I come to be in such an amazing and erotic gym environment, surrounded by lifters, wrestlers, acrobats and so forth, is probably best explained in this book to the left, and the two volumes that follow it! The gym, obviously, is a private ‘selected members only’ environment. Links to the other books below – they’re all available in e-book format by the way. This blog offers some more ‘up-to-the minute’ news and misadventures, so feel free to scroll down and look around!

This ‘sweaty’ ‘seize-the-moment’ topic came into my head for this post since I found myself in just such a wrestling situation last night – a foursome, indeed. I’d finished up my routine on a machine next to Pete, Dave’s brother, so we mooched over to the wrestle mats and got stuck in, quickly joined by two of our favourite other ‘bodies’ – Native American ‘Three Rivers’ with his amazing flexibility and his frequent weights partner the slim and extraordinarily ripped Carlos, who came to our gym some years ago to fix the roof and basically never left! He just lives for fitness and now does quite a bit of modelling. Anyway…

We ended up in our exhausted pile as usual. Me at the bottom, on my back; ‘3R’ and Carlos entangled across my chest and, Pete on the top of the pile, so sweaty that it was collecting on his nipple and dripping on to my face. Call me weird (most do!) but sharing this sweaty experience with other fitness freaks, being accepted as ‘good enough’ to be one of the gang… I never tire of it. More sweaty guys came to join in the fun:


And, in this particular environment, I ended up as ‘Bukkake Boy’, the final contribution coming from my very own Dave before he flung himself on top of me, the others melting away to leave us some quiet time before, finally, dragging ourselves to our feet and hitting the showers…


I think that the photographer who captured this pic did a fantastic job – the water drops, the extended hairs, the great body on the guy and the lighting… I just wish I could compose pictures like that, but I can’t and so we make do mostly here with what shows up on the net!

Post showers and home, then, and still enough energy in Dave and I for some personal affection before sleeping…




Finally, snuggled up together and off to dreamland…


Seize the Moment, guys! You only live once, and the opportunity may never come again. if it’s coming out you’re worried about, then JUST DO IT. The moment is NOW.

Check yourself out. Body, mind, whatever. All of it! Decide on your next bold step – even if it is just asking that rather well-muscled guy over there doing bench presses to spot for you when you’re on your own in the gym, rather than holding back. Who knows where it could lead! If you’re straight, well, the same applies. He could turn into your best friend.

Here’s a couple more inspirational pictures:


(…and, by the way, you don’t need to shave your chest hair to look fantastic!)


Loving the Boy: ISBN 978-1-907732-30-0

The Power of Love: ISBN 978-1-907732-41-6

Against All Odds: ISBN 978-1-908645-35-7

About tonycavanagh

Born Northampton UK; school Oxford UK and Oak Ridge Tennessee, where I met my wonderful partner Dave, also from UK. Oak Ridge is our main training base for acrobatics and circus stuff, but we also established a base in Wales (UK) to serve us when we are working in Europe. Our 'story', of finding gay love, learning the acrobatics trade and then of how we got shot at during our show (and worse was to follow - just to prove that the risks of being an acrobat are not always the most obvious ones!) are now available in my three books 'Loving the Boy', 'The Power of Love' and 'Against All Odds'. Links available on most blog posts. Actually, waiting for the imminent arrival of the first printed copies was far scarier than anything we do in performance. A fourth book - not about us but exploring the sadness of a gay Native American boy denied his true identity - is currently with an agent for evaluation. watch for 'Let The Future Find Me' in due time. And now to book five... another boy, another quest... seems its always boys...
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1 Response to Seize the Moment

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