Bring On the Oxytocin

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Well, the guys (along with son Leo and Dave’s daughter Jaymee) are back from the circus tour, and we are shortly off to UK.  However, we have just enjoyed 24 hours with the whole ten of us Tuan Jie guys, celebrating our reunion in the customary (gay) way – all sworn ‘clean’ and available to each other. Well, I’ve gone on before about how that works… see the books for how we got it together (links at the end). Of course, a special welcome home for my Dave… skin on skin, said to raise ones oxytocin levels, which is the peptide that brings on that special sense of wellbeing during love making…

So I’m probably ‘high’ on that as well as one the other drugs the medics are currently forcing into me.

Today, then, we celebrate that special maleness and togetherness which gay guys enjoy, with some appropriate ‘fit’ and ‘muscle’ pics.


Add a whiff of pheromones to the oxytocin and we’re really in business:

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Whilst we’re on the street bars…


Packing on the muscle in the gym:


Always warm up with just the bar (20kg):


…then move on to the heavier stuff…


Indoor pull-up bars are great workouts too…


Then, of course, the great pleasure in ‘doing it together’… that ‘skin-on-skin’ thing again…

GERMANY. At the Baltic Sea. 1933. Wrestling boys.

…especially the ‘chill-out’ phase…




…sharing your dream – whatever it may be…


Find time, of course, to check out the other guys… Japanese interlude…


Have fun…


…share a healthy diet with your shirtless mates…

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If you get to the beach, check out the talent…


…whilst you stay in training…


Back where we began… a good night’s sleep, loving bodies pressed together…


Oh yes, I nearly forgot…

Links to the ‘Living the Dream’ trilogy, for your beach reading material…

Loving the Boy: ISBN 978-1-907732-30-0

The Power of Love: ISBN 978-1-907732-41-6

Against All Odds: ISBN 978-1-908645-35-7

About tonycavanagh

Born Northampton UK; school Oxford UK and Oak Ridge Tennessee, where I met my wonderful partner Dave, also from UK. Oak Ridge is our main training base for acrobatics and circus stuff, but we also established a base in Wales (UK) to serve us when we are working in Europe. Our 'story', of finding gay love, learning the acrobatics trade and then of how we got shot at during our show (and worse was to follow - just to prove that the risks of being an acrobat are not always the most obvious ones!) are now available in my three books 'Loving the Boy', 'The Power of Love' and 'Against All Odds'. Links available on most blog posts. Actually, waiting for the imminent arrival of the first printed copies was far scarier than anything we do in performance. A fourth book - not about us but exploring the sadness of a gay Native American boy denied his true identity - is currently with an agent for evaluation. watch for 'Let The Future Find Me' in due time. And now to book five... another boy, another quest... seems its always boys...
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1 Response to Bring On the Oxytocin

  1. Paul says:

    Hey heart-throbs! Are those top pictures of the 2 dads? If so, I am blown away; you 2 are far more hot and beautiful than I had fantasized. OMG….hey pls. stop those articles on how old you are getting and favoring the younger guys (just kids really) over yourselves.
    You are not over the “hill”… rather achieving and in and on the PEAK of your dazzling selves, bodies, face s, writing skills, ability to hold others in trances of extasy….l get a bit carried away. I have been in or part of the the Gay/Bi life longer than the age of your grandpa. I have never seen better. CELEBRATE YOUR WONDERFUL LIVES, PLEASE

    Paul (Muscleguy)

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